I (practically) cried at the gym today. Real tears. As in, I had to have the following stern discussion with myself:
“Lindsay! There is no crying in the gym. You’ve gotta be tough. Think of the Olympians!”
Less than one year ago, I was in really solid shape. In this same gym, I could show up daily and rock through my workouts…lifting over 225 lbs. with my legs, more than 10 times…or lunging around the building with heavy weights overhead.
Back then, I could finish an hour long spin class. And do more things…
Today…I was fatigued to the point of nausea after only 15 minutes. At a very low pace.
I never chose to leave the gym.
My hands chose it.
First with an injury to my left thumb, then with some sort of nerve damage in my right fingers.
I could have gone back, but I didn’t. Instead, I began to write and work like a madwoman (and follow the work with ice cream and candy corn and Cadbury cream eggs).
I used pain and then rain as an excuse to stay home.
I got sick and then tired.
Enough is enough.
Thankfully, I had my trainer to return to…
The same trainer who kicked me out of the gym when my hand was broken but I would not get it taken care of…
He pushes me to finish, but reminds me to be patient. He teaches me about muscle memory and assures me I will get back to where I was.
He will not allow me to quit but he will also not allow me to compare where I am now to where I was when I was at the top of my game.
He makes me want to go to the gym, even when it is hard, even when I get nauseous or dizzy from exertion, even when I’m frustrated because I can’t do what I used to. I still want to go.
And so it must be for any coach, guide or mentor.
Whether you pay her for 1:1 coaching or whether you receive your mentorship from afar through daily emails.
As I reviewed your surveys, I noticed several things…
- My emails are read by a very diverse bunch of people with diverse business strategies and positions.
- The diverse people all have one thing in common: A desire to learn to make more money in their respective craft…and to do very soon.
I felt a distinct frustration in the group…and I know you all wanted more concrete pathways to selling.
I get it. Marketing is fun but it sure is frustrating.
Happily, there is no one-size-fits-many solution to making money quickly. Sure the goo-roos will tell you their program is one way, or even a guaranteed way…but if that was so, wouldn’t everyone be doing it?
I cannot walk into the gym, have a trainer hand me the workout plan that built Arnold Schwarzenegger’s 20 something body into a 7-time Mr. Universe winner, and expect it to squeeze my 40 year old body back into a bikini like shape by May.
I need a trainer’s knowledge, his guidance, his gentle nudge when I’m tired or frustrated or just want to quit. I need to be accountable to show up and to push myself.
So too, I cannot expect one step-by-step, fill-in-the-blank tool to provide me a path to copywriting superstardom and rockstar millionairess status. I need my mentors to show me how they made it…what principles they followed to attract clients, to write converting copy, to build their expertise, their teams and their good name.
And you, my friend, do too.
The best we can do as we learn and grow is to surround ourselves with the people right in front of us on the path we wish to take…those who will mentor us and show us the way and push us through our frustration and fears.
Who will help you forge your way to more clients, better results and greater mastery of your craft?
If you are truly committed to learning to grow your copy business through networking, connecting, prospecting, selling and exceptional service and results, your mentor could be me:
I have one spot open for 1:1 mentorship and will not take on another person until after summer at the earliest… connect with me if you are interested.
I have read your comments, received your emails, and I have heard you.
Great workshops and technical emails are in the works to help you move up the ladder on your way to success…