Impostor Syndrome Keeps You Broke…So, why not try this?

Impostor Syndrome

Do you know how to receive a compliment?

I don’t just mean acknowledging a compliment by saying, “thank you” or deflecting a compliment with false modesty.

I mean do you know how to fully receive the compliment, like deep down, where perception shifts occur?

Every single solitary person I know struggles with impostor syndrome at some point in their life.

In fact, according to recent psychological research performed by the Behavioral Science Research Institute and documented in the study, The Impostor Phenomenon, it was discovered Impostor Syndrome is felt by a wide majority of people, and that “It is estimated that 70% of people will experience at least one episode of this Impostor Phenomenon in their lives” (Sakulu, Alexander, 2011).

And…it’s not just the high achievers in the workplace.  Impostor Syndrome is felt everywhere.

Some will look at their kids and think, “I have no business parenting. I’m still a kid myself.”

Some will look around a corporate boardroom and think, “How did I get here? I’m way too young to be here.”

Or, some will change careers, call themselves a copywriter and think, “How do I know if I’m even any good at this?”

Many people do an incredible job of hiding their fear of being discovered as a “fraud” behind bravado, superiority complexes, and attitude. Some have done a lot of brain coaching to work through it…

I remember back in the corporate days…I was the girl sitting in the conference room, dressed up in my board of director meeting regalia of pencil skirt and matching jacket, 4 inch heels…and all I could think is, “what if they find out I’m not the woman I say I am.”

I felt about 21 inside. But I was playing a capable executive in the drama of my life.

The outside not matching the inside eventually burnt me out. Nothing confuses the mind more than being incongruent with yourself.

Here’s the good news:

Testimonials…if you accept them as true…can be the difference between feeling like an imposter and knowing you are the real deal Super Star you are.

Sounds super woowooooo, I know. But I promise you, if you get this part down, you can become as confident at selling your wares as Kylie Jenner is selling Lip Kits. (She made $8M in 20 minutes and broke Google mid-launch…look it’s unreal.)

Back in the days of corporate life…I’d only ever focus on the one or two improvement points on every one of those terrible 360 degree reviews. The ones where they pick apart your performance once a year.

I never integrated the good review points into my psyche.

Now…I never miss a chance to do so, and neither should you.

What is the last positive testimonial or comment you received on any work you’ve done?

Do you have a file of such comments at the ready for a pick-me-up when things get rough? (Because let’s face it…every business and life has its ups and downs, even throughout the day).

Read that last comment over and over and accept it as you. Take it in front of the mirror. Read it to yourself. RECEIVE IT!

Don’t worry, my friend, I’m not going soft on you. You told me you wanted to learn how to sell more and get what you’re worth…

And I am telling you, if you do not believe in your worth, your prospect won’t either.



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